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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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"LITTLE DEATH". WHAT IS DEPENDENCE
Parting is a painful experience. We are embraced by mixed feelings: sadness, fear, helplessness and even anger. Grieving for a loss of relationship is perfectly normal. Over time, relief comes,…

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“HUSBAND MEETS ANOTHER WOMAN ...”
My husband and I have been married for 15 years, everything was as it should be, a high-profile wedding, flowers and gifts. My parents bought us an apartment, our first-born…

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Love in three words

Often people ask their relationship partner, “Do you love me?” Moreover, the answer to the question, what does the questioner mean by the word “love”, often there are no clear definitions and criteria.
In this chapter, I offer you my definition of what “love” is in three words.

So,
From my point of view, the definition of the word “love” can fit into three words: Continue reading

When is it appropriate to apologize? to apologize or express regret?

In what situations is it appropriate to apologize, and in which – to apologize or express regret? Most do not understand the differences and subtleties of these concepts. Consider them in this article.

Apologizing is appropriate when an act is accidental. When something happened unintentionally. Mistaken, misunderstood, acted impulsively, without thinking, out of habit, etc. Continue reading

Why does pain appear after breaking up with a loved one

Why is it painful to part with the person we love?

The pain after parting is natural. And the more your attachment, the more it will manifest itself. Especially if the initiative for parting came from a partner.

Psychologically, this mechanism grows from childhood, when we were small, helpless and completely dependent on someone else’s care. A child up to a certain age is completely dependent on his parents. Continue reading

Evaluation Frame

Evaluation Frame (PF) is a practical communication technique that is useful to you in all areas of life, and not just when communicating with girls. With the help of PF, you will be able to adequately communicate with anyone, not allowing someone to put themselves in a conversation above you. Continue reading

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“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE
Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom…

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“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE
Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom…

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“CASTURING MOTHER” - MONSTER OR VICTIM?
In modern society there is an opinion that there are simply no strong, “real” men. They either died out as a species, or have already been taken apart by other…

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Why does pain appear after breaking up with a loved one
Why is it painful to part with the person we love? The pain after parting is natural. And the more your attachment, the more it will manifest itself. Especially if…

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