HOW TO RETURN NEARBY?
The return of intimacy to relationships is a serious topic. Sexual desires are directly related to our libido, and it can change over time. When is it still possible to…

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“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE
Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom…

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MYTHS ABOUT VIRTUALITY. EXPLAIN FALSE STEREOTYPES ABOUT FEMALE “INNOCENCE”
Female virginity is a phenomenon surrounded by an aura of modesty and a peculiar fetishism. Even educated people can believe in myths about the physiological processes and behavioral characteristics that…

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PEOPLE HUNTING. 3 WAYS TO STRENGTHEN Sense of SECURITY IN RELATIONS

In any relationship, one partner may require more attention and be “more in need” than another. Perhaps this need stems from the deep pain and inability of your partner to correctly express your desires and needs only because you have different attachment styles. SHOWER LOVE The theory of attachment was first proposed by psychologist John Bowlby. According to this concept, how you relate to people around you in adulthood is affected by the style of attachment formed in childhood. Continue reading

6 MAIN RULES OF SPONTANEOUS SEX
You can spontaneously go to the store and catch a dream dress on sale. Or, unexpectedly, buy a ticket and win the lottery. And you can accidentally see a person…

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About TECH and NOT TECH men
“The wrong ones walk and roam in the dark,” one of the classics said something like that. And he was right. Especially often the problem of "those" - "not those"…

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WHAT IS A CUKOLD IN RELATIONS?
At the consultations, men and women talk about sexual fantasies about treason and their fears. And some women complain that their husbands are forcing this form of sexual activity. Let's…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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