When is it appropriate to apologize? to apologize or express regret?
In what situations is it appropriate to apologize, and in which - to apologize or express regret? Most do not understand the differences and subtleties of these concepts. Consider them…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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Do you know how to put up? 28 WAYS TO RESTORE THE WORLD AFTER CONFLICT
No matter how hard we try, disagreements in the relationship are inevitable. Misunderstanding, broken agreements, unmet needs, unhealed wounds and other reasons push us straight to the conflict. Relationship friction…

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“CASTURING MOTHER” – MONSTER OR VICTIM?

In modern society there is an opinion that there are simply no strong, “real” men. They either died out as a species, or have already been taken apart by other women. Psychologists point to the infantility of men, their inability to cope with the adult role. Men refuse to take responsibility for relationships, are afraid to create families and become fathers, do not want to get acquainted and take the initiative in communicating with the opposite sex, in the end they are afraid to “pick up a member” and use it for its intended purpose. Continue reading

"LITTLE DEATH". WHAT IS DEPENDENCE
Parting is a painful experience. We are embraced by mixed feelings: sadness, fear, helplessness and even anger. Grieving for a loss of relationship is perfectly normal. Over time, relief comes,…

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HOW TO RETURN NEARBY?
The return of intimacy to relationships is a serious topic. Sexual desires are directly related to our libido, and it can change over time. When is it still possible to…

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“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE
Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom…

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6 MAIN RULES OF SPONTANEOUS SEX
You can spontaneously go to the store and catch a dream dress on sale. Or, unexpectedly, buy a ticket and win the lottery. And you can accidentally see a person…

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