“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE
Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom…

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Love in three words
Often people ask their relationship partner, “Do you love me?” Moreover, the answer to the question, what does the questioner mean by the word “love”, often there are no clear…

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Psychological problems of communication of people and their solutions. Fears, fixations, anchors.
All internal psychological problems in the communication of people and their causes are hidden exactly where you would never even have thought of looking for them. And they hide so…

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LET’S TALK ABOUT IT”. ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS

This is the second article from the series “Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin.” The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult children. We hope that the non-standard form of presentation of the material will help the reader to extract and remember key points. We are sure that an attentive reader will correctly “decipher” all the provocative ideas and advice of the author. Continue reading

“HUSBAND MEETS ANOTHER WOMAN …”

My husband and I have been married for 15 years, everything was as it should be, a high-profile wedding, flowers and gifts. My parents bought us an apartment, our first-born son was soon born. We were in seventh heaven. Three years later, our daughter was also born with great joy. When the children grew up, they began to go on vacation together, wherever they had visited! Now I look at these photos, and I can’t even believe it. In general, we were truly friendly and happy. Continue reading

Psychological problems of communication of people and their solutions. Fears, fixations, anchors.
All internal psychological problems in the communication of people and their causes are hidden exactly where you would never even have thought of looking for them. And they hide so…

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CHANGES IN RELATIONS. 4 UNCERTAIN SIGNS OF CHANGE AND FORGIVENESS
Treason is an unpleasant and, of course, painful topic. We tend to act in two ways. Avoid, do not believe that it is possible, or “work ahead of the curve”…

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6 MAIN RULES OF SPONTANEOUS SEX
You can spontaneously go to the store and catch a dream dress on sale. Or, unexpectedly, buy a ticket and win the lottery. And you can accidentally see a person…

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Evaluation Frame
Evaluation Frame (PF) is a practical communication technique that is useful to you in all areas of life, and not just when communicating with girls. With the help of PF,…

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