Psychological people

EMOTIONAL INCIDENTITY OR FRIENDSHIP?
Over the past decades, a new type of “infidelity” has become increasingly common - emotional attachment, which is increasingly becoming a threat to marriage. One of the most common places…

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5 MYTHS ABOUT WOMEN'S PHYSIOLOGY
The female reproductive system has long remained a taboo and closed topic. However, even now, in the age of access to information about scientific research, there are a lot of…

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Why do men love bitch
There is such a phenomenon that some men choose bitchy women. The explanation is very simple - boredom. The reasons why men love bitch come from childhood. Our men are…

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Psychological problems of communication of people and their solutions. Fears, fixations, anchors.

All internal psychological problems in the communication of people and their causes are hidden exactly where you would never even have thought of looking for them. And they hide so skillfully, because it is you who hides them. And you certainly know those places where you would never have climbed to look for them. They are very well hidden and so unpleasant that accidentally encountering them, it is easier for us to shove them back and deeper. There are ways to solve psychological problems, but they are not very pleasant and require rethinking everything you know about it. Continue reading

HOW TO RETURN NEARBY?

The return of intimacy to relationships is a serious topic. Sexual desires are directly related to our libido, and it can change over time. When is it still possible to return to its former proximity, and when not to try? We offer to test effective psychological techniques. BECOMING CLOSER DOES NOT GET IT IF … 1. You used to want a relationship with this person, and now, after a certain amount of time, he no longer excites you, even his smell annoys you.It is impossible to return intimacy to such relationships because they have already exhausted themselves. Libido is a thing that is often beyond our control. Continue reading

“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE

Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom we plan to meet. Now we often spend time together, but my son clearly does not like it. And the most unpleasant thing is his jokes regarding my new relationship. Often they have a sexual connotation. On the verge of decency. I understand that sex for him – as for a teenager – is a “sick” topic. And when, instead of my father, another person is next to me, probably especially disturbing. Continue reading

TEENAGERS AND SEX

I came to graduation with huge white bows and an anticipation of a new life. And when I was about to get home, the teacher caught me in the corridor and whispered, “I know that you are a decent girl and you are not going to do such stupid things. But … ”And she told me a popular way of protection. UNDER THE LAWS OF EVOLUTION I, of course, was very confused, but it was this conversation that made me think not only about sex, but also about safety and responsibility. Continue reading

LET’S TALK ABOUT IT”. ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS

This is the second article from the series “Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin.” The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult children. We hope that the non-standard form of presentation of the material will help the reader to extract and remember key points. We are sure that an attentive reader will correctly “decipher” all the provocative ideas and advice of the author. Continue reading

6 MEN'S BEDDIES
Sex enlightenment in our country is still confused with debauchery, and children often get information about this not from their parents, but from school folklore. Many men consider themselves Ases…

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WE CHOOSE EACH OTHER NOT BY RANDOM. 4 FACTORS THAT DETERMINE RELATIONS
A man can seek us for years, but we will not reciprocate him. And sometimes one glance is enough to understand - this is it! Why is it that we…

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WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE CHANGE IN CHANGE?
So is betrayal a betrayal? By the way, it is customary to give a negative color to betrayal in everyday life. By definition, betrayal is a failure to fulfill loyalty…

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Rejected. HOW TO RESIST A FAILURE
Each of us at least once in our life has experienced a painful experience of rejection. For example, you did not receive the coveted job or you were not invited…

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