Psychological people

Love in three words
Often people ask their relationship partner, “Do you love me?” Moreover, the answer to the question, what does the questioner mean by the word “love”, often there are no clear…

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"I LOVE YOUR TEACHER." WHAT IS STOCKHOLM SYNDROME?
Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition that occurs when a victim of abuse becomes attached, feels sympathy and begins to identify with her abuser. This syndrome was discovered when observing…

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PEOPLE HUNTING. 3 WAYS TO STRENGTHEN Sense of SECURITY IN RELATIONS
In any relationship, one partner may require more attention and be “more in need” than another. Perhaps this need stems from the deep pain and inability of your partner to…

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Psychological problems of communication of people and their solutions. Fears, fixations, anchors.

All internal psychological problems in the communication of people and their causes are hidden exactly where you would never even have thought of looking for them. And they hide so skillfully, because it is you who hides them. And you certainly know those places where you would never have climbed to look for them. They are very well hidden and so unpleasant that accidentally encountering them, it is easier for us to shove them back and deeper. There are ways to solve psychological problems, but they are not very pleasant and require rethinking everything you know about it. Continue reading

HOW TO RETURN NEARBY?

The return of intimacy to relationships is a serious topic. Sexual desires are directly related to our libido, and it can change over time. When is it still possible to return to its former proximity, and when not to try? We offer to test effective psychological techniques. BECOMING CLOSER DOES NOT GET IT IF … 1. You used to want a relationship with this person, and now, after a certain amount of time, he no longer excites you, even his smell annoys you.It is impossible to return intimacy to such relationships because they have already exhausted themselves. Libido is a thing that is often beyond our control. Continue reading

“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE

Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom we plan to meet. Now we often spend time together, but my son clearly does not like it. And the most unpleasant thing is his jokes regarding my new relationship. Often they have a sexual connotation. On the verge of decency. I understand that sex for him – as for a teenager – is a “sick” topic. And when, instead of my father, another person is next to me, probably especially disturbing. Continue reading

TEENAGERS AND SEX

I came to graduation with huge white bows and an anticipation of a new life. And when I was about to get home, the teacher caught me in the corridor and whispered, “I know that you are a decent girl and you are not going to do such stupid things. But … ”And she told me a popular way of protection. UNDER THE LAWS OF EVOLUTION I, of course, was very confused, but it was this conversation that made me think not only about sex, but also about safety and responsibility. Continue reading

LET’S TALK ABOUT IT”. ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS

This is the second article from the series “Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin.” The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult children. We hope that the non-standard form of presentation of the material will help the reader to extract and remember key points. We are sure that an attentive reader will correctly “decipher” all the provocative ideas and advice of the author. Continue reading

TEENAGERS AND SEX
I came to graduation with huge white bows and an anticipation of a new life. And when I was about to get home, the teacher caught me in the corridor…

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Why do men love bitch
There is such a phenomenon that some men choose bitchy women. The explanation is very simple - boredom. The reasons why men love bitch come from childhood. Our men are…

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THE FILM “WHAT HIDES A FALSE” LOOKS TOGETHER WITH A PSYCHOLOGIST
"What hides the lie." USA, 2000 Director: Robert Zemeckis Cast: Michelle Pfeiffer, Harrison Ford A happy married couple finds themselves in a strange situation. The wife begins to imagine the…

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HOW TO RETURN NEARBY?
The return of intimacy to relationships is a serious topic. Sexual desires are directly related to our libido, and it can change over time. When is it still possible to…

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