HOW TO RETURN NEARBY?
The return of intimacy to relationships is a serious topic. Sexual desires are directly related to our libido, and it can change over time. When is it still possible to return to its former proximity, and when not to try? We offer to test effective psychological techniques. BECOMING CLOSER DOES NOT GET IT IF … 1. You used to want a relationship with this person, and now, after a certain amount of time, he no longer excites you, even his smell annoys you.It is impossible to return intimacy to such relationships because they have already exhausted themselves. Libido is a thing that is often beyond our control. 2. The second situation, when relations come to a standstill and regain their former passion, alas, will not work, these are some tragic circumstances that one or both partners had to endure, including betrayal, treason, etc. Circumstances arise between once close people, and they actually become strangers. Situations when the libido is just beginning to fade are not completely hopeless, the activity of one or both partners decreases, and passion disappears from the relationship. But at the same time, the relationship between the spouses remains friendly and relatively close. A fading physiological light can be ignited using techniques often used by psychologists. TECHNIQUE No. 1. VERBAL METHOD Focus on those phrases that will return you and your partner to the past. Include in your speech memories of those moments when you were really close, you felt good. For example, you came to a forest or a park, take your spouse by the arm and say: “Do you remember how we walked many years ago (at the same time, you name the exact moment). It was a quiet evening, foliage rustled under your feet, you hugged me and told me such and such … ”Thus you bring him and yourself back to the situation when everything was fine between you. You need to do this calmly and without straining, naturally including such memories in your daily life. Your actions remind you of situations related to sexual desire. To make your memories as strong as possible, try to remember what kind of music sounded at a certain moment, songs that both of you liked. Try to fully immerse yourself in the context of that time. In addition to your words, music, you can add smells. For example, buy a perfume that you once used. Those that your husband gave you.