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About TECH and NOT TECH men

“The wrong ones walk and roam in the dark,” one of the classics said something like that. And he was right. Especially often the problem of “those” – “not those” is faced by women. Or maybe it seems to me because I’m a woman myself …

So, all the men with whom life faces us can indeed be conditionally divided into TECH and NOT TECH.

TE – these are males that we really like, with whom we want to have sex, which, in the future, would not refuse even to have children.

We have exactly the opposite feelings for DONT men: we don’t want to see them, and we don’t want to let them in our bed for a cannon shot. But NOT THESE men are usually very liked by our mothers, and when mentioning TECH, they, on the contrary, change their faces and ask why we always like such gouging ones, and not positive guys. So what is the difference between these two “biological species” of men?

Those men on the very first night of dating are trying to drag us into bed, and we are dying of such pressure. NOT THESE men can also try to drag us into bed all on the same first evening, but we are enraged by their persistence and unfounded confidence in their own irresistibility.

Those men take a phone number from us and promise to call tomorrow. Without waiting for the call within a week, we stuff our female pride away, and begin to call ourselves to remind THOSE men of their existence.

NOT THESE men also beg for our coveted number and also promise to call back. And they call back … And when we say that we are busy, and we can’t meet with them in the next five months, they scrupulously count five months on the calendar and call back again. Such a misunderstanding of our veiled “messages” to a known address can continue as long as you like. All this time, NOT those men will be tedious and meticulous in contacting us.

From TECH men we always wait for a call. It is for their sake that we do not turn off mobile phones at night. If the TOT man calls us at two in the morning and says that he has just returned from a distant business trip, and missed him terribly, we will be happy. NOT THAT a man can call us at the most working hours, we, seeing his number on the phone screen, can still “not hear” the call, and then “forget” to call back.

We justify those men all the time. The fact that they periodically forget about our existence, we attribute to their employment. Their lack of intelligence (if any) is compensated by their unlimited personal charm, etc. NOT FOR THESE men we are not ready to forgive not only weaknesses, but also dignity. Non-conflict means a rag, reliable means boring and predictable … Perhaps this is unfair, but it is.

With THESE men we feel good in bed. We are ready to meet any (well, almost any) of their fantasies. We can make love to them in the reception of their boss, where someone might be about to enter, we can allow ourselves to be handcuffed or even spanked. It is with THEM men that women more often agree to anal sex or sex without a condom. Moreover, we are doing this not only to please THEM men, but also because we ourselves want it. We are excited only by the anticipation of what, and, most importantly, with whom, we will do now, and therefore we ourselves are provided with incomparable pleasure.

NOT THE men, as mentioned above, generally have little chance of being in our bed. Sometimes, from depression caused by another manifestation of inattention on the part of TOGO man, some women still agree to have sex with NOT THE SAME men. But in vain. They themselves with a person who does not excite them will not be able to enjoy. But not the SAME man, too, does not shine anything but a “werewolf girl, who at night turns into a log.”

Unfortunately, TE men do not always value relations with us. An affair with them is just a series of non-binding meetings. We probably spoiled them ourselves with our patience and forgiveness. We suffer for this, because TE men usually leave our lives abruptly, beautifully and forever. For example, they leave for another city or even a country, leaving us some photos, memories (good, hell, despite the fact that our relationship was far from a romantic ideal) and pleasant languishing in the chest and lower abdomen when we think about them. But NOT those men, as luck would have it, stick to our lives like a bath sheet you yourself know what.

They guard us under the house and under work, name and fill up with electronic congratulations on all conceivable holidays, while showing an amazing ability to cause irritation. When we wait for a call from TOGO man, our anticipation will inevitably interrupt the call from NOT TOGO. When we suffer because the affair with the next TEM man is forever in the past, he will certainly come running to us, awkwardly opening his arms, NOT the man. He will try to console, but his presence will only make it worse.

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