Why do men love bitch
There is such a phenomenon that some men choose bitchy women. The explanation is very simple – boredom.
The reasons why men love bitch come from childhood. Our men are often brought up in women’s families, where the mother most often dominates. Moreover, the mother – “with eggs”, as they say – satrap, tyrant and others like them.
Being brought up in such a family, a man gets used to a certain emotional background. Constant quarrelsomeness, quarrels, manipulations, various emotional clues, when the mother constantly pulls these emotional hooks. Generally speaking, this is not the norm, but unfortunately in our world this has long been a common occurrence.
And it turns out that the boy who grew up in such a family, having matured and matured (in quotation marks) and saturated with such womanish beliefs, such as what is a “real man”, grows up and begins to look for a chosen one, a companion. It doesn’t matter if this is a girl just for hobby or for family.
He meets, for example, a good, pleasant, flexible girl. Moreover, pleasant in every way. Which brain does not cut, which is with the right positions in life. That is, not talkative, not stingy, not slouched, he does not try to manipulate him. But such a woman or girl is simply boring for him. Moreover, some men admit that everyone understands, but can not do anything about themselves. And purposefully choose QMS and STERV. And at the same time they clearly see that the woman is over-looked and that the brain will eat out. But with normal girls who are quiet, flexible, pleasant – it does not work. Because it’s boring.
And that is understandable. Because the psyche is used to it. And such a man can fall into various defenses, rationalizations. That is, such a man can explain this by the fact that with normal girls he is not just bored, but, for example, not interested. That is, such girls do not seem to get him to accomplish. And if a woman “cuts him”, then it turns out, she turns him on.
Because such a man’s psyche is deformed. He has an internal source of motivation disabled. Why? – He was doing something only from under a stick throughout his childhood. And not just from under the stick, but from under the stick in a certain way. That is, they must either “saw” it, or “eat his brain” and then he will have a motivation to do something in response to this.
Such men will not even think that what they are facing is pathology. For them, this is the norm. They grew up in this, lived in this. Most of their friends lived in this, all the women tell them the same thing and confirm. And of course, such men consciously choose bitches and bitch. And they really like it. Because normal for them are boring.
And then the normal girls, who run into such men, are surprised why the guy is already starting to harden in his turn, go somewhere to the left, look for some larvae with which he is dumbly on the same street, I apologize for the expression. And they also fall in love with them.
Why is this happening? But because the boys themselves have an ugly psyche. And the girls do not understand this all, but wanting to arrange their personal life, under the pressure of circumstances, of society, they have one way left. They consciously begin to go to all these filthy, scanty trainings in stervology and learn all these fucking chips.
Although they do not need to harden, but such men must be re-educated. Knock all this shit babskoy out of male heads. Then the right girls will be really in demand. And the men will not go from them to the left and look for some kind of adventure. And normally they will live with them. And for them it will be the norm – when a wife or girlfriend is compliant, pleasant in every way. Not a bitch, not a bitch when she does not “gash” you. Then it will not seem boredom and longing.
That is, the man will have an intrinsic motivation that he goes somewhere outside, works, earns, comes home and relaxes with such a woman. I believe that this is the correct scheme, and not the one that is now in many cases.
In our modern reality, the culture of scandals is consciously supported. For the same purpose, “House-2” was invented, for example. That is why scandalous programs and talk shows are so popular, for example – “To the barrier”, “Let them talk”. That is, you watch it all and as if you are plunging into your childhood. For many, this is so. For many, this is a neurotic attachment. Because there is a powerful pumping and the people are reflecting on this. There is a reaction of unconscious negativity.
And what are scandals for such men and such women? This is a chaff for the mind. This is fast food, which the psyche feeds itself. The life of a modern person is empty, by definition. All values are destroyed by modern society, and new values are not worked out. And it turns out that people, in order not to be bored, eat each other’s brain. That’s all.