7 PHRASES WHICH A MAN WANTS TO HEAR FROM YOU
They say that women love with their ears – declarations of love and pleasant words are important to them no less than actions. But we rarely say to our beloved man what he wants to hear. What words and phrases is important to say to a loved one? This is told by a family psychologist and writer Olga Romaniv.
1. “I LOVE YOU”
The very first thing a man wants and needs to hear from you is a recognition of his feelings. These simple three words help him to understand the correctness of his choice, to realize that you need him as much as he needs you. But do not talk about love every free minute – it can become an irritant.
Remember: you do not just say nice words, but make the emotional thread that binds you stronger.
2. “DO YOU EVERYTHING GOOD?”
This may include any words of support – “I’m with you”, “Tell me”, “How do you feel?” And many others. These are the words of care that your loved one needs. Speak them sincerely, wanting to help him with at least what you can listen to. A partner needs your participation in his life.
Remember: your concern, and, accordingly, the words themselves should be sincere, and not be said “for the sake of decency.” Otherwise, over time, the partner will begin to answer you the same, and this can create a crack in the relationship.
3. “FORGIVE ME”
These are words of reconciliation. The ability to forgive and ask for forgiveness is a great talent, find it in yourself and develop it.
Learn to admit your guilt if a quarrel has occurred as a result of your words or actions. If you offended a loved one, then you and change the polarity of the situation from minus to plus.
4. “HELP, PLEASE”
Learn how to do household chores when taking a walk or playing with children. A man cannot read your thoughts, especially what is written between the lines, so your “subtle” hints may simply not be understood.
Speak clearly about your expectations, explain what is important to you in a relationship, and discuss the division of responsibilities.
5. “YOU ARE THE BEST”
This category includes any words that allow you to increase your partner’s self-esteem: “You look great”, “I’m calm and easy with you” and many others. Know how to praise a man, he needs to feel at his best, to understand that he is worthy of you.
If you see on the street an interested female look directed at your spouse, tell him about it cheerfully or in an intriguing whisper, but in no case “turn on” jealousy, especially since there is no reason for her.
6. “BE WITH ME GENTLY”
This category includes all the words that characterize your erotic fantasies. A man does not just need diversity, but he first of all thinks about your pleasure, and the words will become a kind of guide for him, helping to achieve your desires.
Do not be afraid to talk about sex and talk about what you want. Your words will help improve and diversify your sex life.
7. “THANKS, CUTE”
Learn to be thankful. You are pleased when your husband thanks you for a delicious dinner or a pleasant evening. He deserves the same in return. “Thank you” can be both general – “for what I have you”, and private, depending on the situation. With your gratitude, you show the partner the need and correctness of what he did.
Thank the man, these words will become an engine for him – he will want to do something else: give a nice gift, clean it in the house, invite him to the premiere in the theater, do something that you sometimes hesitate to ask for.