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Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition that occurs when a victim of abuse becomes attached, feels sympathy and begins to identify with her abuser. This syndrome was discovered when observing…

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5 SIGNS OF RELATIONS WHICH IT IS TIME TO COMPLETE

Many of us are familiar with the situation when, instead of the expected emotions from a relationship with a person, you get something completely different. Disappointment is a terrible thing that takes all its strength and kills the desire to strive for something … But often it is not immediately possible to decide that it is better to leave.

Someone regrets the partner, someone still has hope “and suddenly everything will change for the better,” someone is afraid of scandal. However, you must be able to let go even a loved one on time.

1. BEATS – MEANS, LOVES?
Unfortunately, the topic of domestic violence is an acute issue not only in our country. A lot of women live all over the world who, at least once in their lives, have been the victims of a home tyrant. One sad episode was enough for someone, and someone had to go to the hospital to realize what was happening and stop suffering beatings.

Remember – if a man at least once raised his hand against a woman, he had a shift in the boundaries of what was permitted. And now to hit someone who will not give him change is the norm for him. So, there are no guarantees that this will not happen again. If you do not want life to become a nightmare, then run away from such a man, and as soon as possible. Because you no longer have a relationship.

2. “YOU ARE SO SCARY!”
You will not believe it, but there are girls who tolerate such words addressed to them from a loved one. The “light” version is when a partner indicates the real or imaginary shortcomings of his woman. If you hear phrases like “You need to lose weight” at your weight of 50 kg, “You have too small / big breasts”, “You need to make your lips bigger” – you know, this relationship is going downhill. Your partner does not love you and, trying to inspire you with far-fetched complexes, he is trying to rise above you. Do you need this?

3. “MASK, I KNOW YOU”
We are all living people, with our “cockroaches” and worldview. It happens that at some moments it does not coincide with the attitude of even the closest person. In the heat of a dispute, you can inadvertently offend your partner, after which usually adults ask for forgiveness from each other. And this is normal. Worse, if a person offends specifically, trying to walk on the most “sore blisters”, deeply wounding. And in response, we pretend that everything is fine.

Resentments accumulate, as if we are overgrowing with armor and telling ourselves that this is not at all important. However, let’s say directly – after such attacks, we are unlikely to watch with love eyes. Because we can forgive, but not forget … and this will always poison the relationship. So is it worth it to continue?

4. “SUPPORT ME!”
Remember when your mother encouraged you as a child, when you were about to have a serious exam or a performance at a school holiday? Often, her kind words and faith in your strength helped even in the most difficult situations. The support of family and friends is important for adults as well, because life is unpredictable and far from always like a holiday.

I especially want to hear words of approval from a loved one. But if they are not there, if your partner constantly doubts your competencies, experience, determination and tells you that you can’t do it, then he doesn’t value you in principle. Because the one who loves rejoices at every success of his own person and gives his confidence in a successful outcome of the matter energy and faith in himself. Therefore, if you don’t hear anything except criticism, think about whether it is time to end this connection.

5. TRUST BUT CHECK?
Another important point that says that it is time to leave is the lack of confidence in the partner. And it doesn’t matter here, you do not trust or you are constantly forced to make excuses and report. In any case, this relationship will not last long. Jealousy is a very difficult feeling, it is almost impossible to get rid of it. Especially if there is reason for her. The occasion, which was once, casts doubt on feelings in principle. A person begins to recall all the cases that once occurred, and to think – was there something then or not?

Any new acquaintance or harmless SMS from a colleague at work can cause an attack of such fury that it becomes scary. Remember the classics – no matter how Othello loved Desdemona, but jealousy overshadowed everything. Therefore, if trust in a person is no longer there, you should not continue to torment each other. It’s better to be saddened now than to live for years in the sense that you are being dishonest.

Of course, this is not a complete list of signs of a “toxic” relationship. This also includes other factors: the lack of attention on the part of the partner, and the lie, and scandals and quarrels “in public.” But the above points clearly indicate that the time for parting has already come and can no longer endure.

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