“CASTURING MOTHER” - MONSTER OR VICTIM?
In modern society there is an opinion that there are simply no strong, “real” men. They either died out as a species, or have already been taken apart by other…

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TALES ABOUT HAPPY MARRIAGE. Three misconceptions that prevent us from living
“There is nothing bad or good in this world. There is only our attitude to anything. ” Shakespeare has noticed an important point, which is one of the fundamental in…

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Evaluation Frame
Evaluation Frame (PF) is a practical communication technique that is useful to you in all areas of life, and not just when communicating with girls. With the help of PF,…

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3 TYPES OF PEOPLE WHO ARE AFRAID OF LOVING. CHECK IF YOU ARE RELEVANT TO THEM

People who are afraid to love may have several platforms to cultivate their fear. The most common option why people are afraid to love is a global disappointment in love experienced in the past. The classic version of the development of events: a person experienced great love and was ultimately left alone with his suffering. He was abandoned, betrayed, not appreciated, cheated on him, etc. In general, love traumatized a person. Then he came out of an acute condition for a long time, then in a chronic form dragged suffering with him through life.1st TYPE. DISAPPOINTED Main reason: viscosity of personality. In psychology, there is such a term – personality viscosity. Such people are characterized by a lack of flexibility, immaturity of the psyche, get stuck in stress, do not fight it, constantly delve into their problem, analyze something and regularly click on the red pain button. After experiencing a strong disappointment in love, they did not let go of the situation, did not get out of it, did not overwork, did not adapt to a new life, did not forget anything, and continue to be stressed. After what they experienced, they no longer imagine what could be different. For them, love is equal to suffering. 2nd TYPE. UNLIKE CHILDREN The main reason: the basic emotion of love is not developed. The second option, why people are afraid to love, has its roots in childhood. Such people, as young children, lacked love. Their parents did not like. This applies to both ordinary children who had fathers and mothers, and children from an orphanage who have such a basic emotion as love, are in their infancy: in principle, they do not know how to love. For those who are not loved in childhood, love is equated with something terrible and incomprehensible. Like most people, they are afraid of everything new, and love is a completely new emotion for them. If the situation takes on a hue of pathology, such people remain alone and even begin to hide from the world. For people who have experienced deprivation in childhood, love – a natural feeling for every person – remains an undisclosed feeling. 3rd TYPE. UNCOMPROMISE CAREERS The main reason: the prohibition of feeling, experiencing emotions. The third type of people who are afraid of love are modern careerists. This type of personality is still not very popular in Russia, but there are already many such young people in European countries. These people knowingly refuse love and emotions, because they face more global tasks, as they consider them, for example, career advancement. Love is perceived by them as a hindrance to achieving goals. Such people deliberately protect themselves from emotional contacts. Yes, they have sex, but they don’t allow emotions. This type of personality is a relatively new invention of mankind; it appeared about a hundred years ago. But the popularity of this approach is growing every day.

WHAT IS A CUKOLD IN RELATIONS?
At the consultations, men and women talk about sexual fantasies about treason and their fears. And some women complain that their husbands are forcing this form of sexual activity. Let's…

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WHAT IS A CUKOLD IN RELATIONS?
At the consultations, men and women talk about sexual fantasies about treason and their fears. And some women complain that their husbands are forcing this form of sexual activity. Let's…

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7 FAVORITE PHRASES OF THE MANIPULATOR. HOW TO RECOGNIZE GASLIGHTING
Gazlighting is used by people with narcissistic disorders, sociopaths and psychopaths to exhaust you to such an extent that you can no longer resist. You might be looking for ways…

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7 FAVORITE PHRASES OF THE MANIPULATOR. HOW TO RECOGNIZE GASLIGHTING
Gazlighting is used by people with narcissistic disorders, sociopaths and psychopaths to exhaust you to such an extent that you can no longer resist. You might be looking for ways…

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