“CASTURING MOTHER” - MONSTER OR VICTIM?
In modern society there is an opinion that there are simply no strong, “real” men. They either died out as a species, or have already been taken apart by other…

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CHANGES IN RELATIONS. 4 UNCERTAIN SIGNS OF CHANGE AND FORGIVENESS
Treason is an unpleasant and, of course, painful topic. We tend to act in two ways. Avoid, do not believe that it is possible, or “work ahead of the curve”…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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Monthly Archives: April 2017

“I LOVE YOUR TEACHER.” WHAT IS STOCKHOLM SYNDROME?

Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition that occurs when a victim of abuse becomes attached, feels sympathy and begins to identify with her abuser. This syndrome was discovered when observing abducted people and hostages, who not only felt a certain connection with their captors, but even fell in love with them. Subsequently, experts expanded the definition of Stockholm syndrome to include any relationship in which victims of abuse develop a strong attachment to the aggressor. Continue reading

7 PHRASES WHICH A MAN WANTS TO HEAR FROM YOU

They say that women love with their ears – declarations of love and pleasant words are important to them no less than actions. But we rarely say to our beloved man what he wants to hear. What words and phrases is important to say to a loved one? This is told by a family psychologist and writer Olga Romaniv.

1. “I LOVE YOU”
The very first thing a man wants and needs to hear from you is a recognition of his feelings. Continue reading

7 FAVORITE PHRASES OF THE MANIPULATOR. HOW TO RECOGNIZE GASLIGHTING

Gazlighting is used by people with narcissistic disorders, sociopaths and psychopaths to exhaust you to such an extent that you can no longer resist. You might be looking for ways to break the link with this toxic person, but all your efforts are spent to restore the sense of contact with reality that he is destroying and trust your feelings.

The most commonly used phrases that gas lighters use to terrorize and exhaust you: Continue reading

WHAT IS A CUKOLD IN RELATIONS?
At the consultations, men and women talk about sexual fantasies about treason and their fears. And some women complain that their husbands are forcing this form of sexual activity. Let's…

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WHAT DO THE DIVORED WOMEN SORRY
Divorce is always hard. And after it remains a sediment - self-pity, anger at her husband, accumulated resentment. What do women regret after a divorce and how to live on?…

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SEX: HISTORY OF INVISIBLE WOMEN
In 2009, American Sarah McClelland published the results of a curious study in which men and women were asked to describe what “bad sex” means to them. Men replied that…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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