ICE AND FLAMES. TEMPERAMENTS SUCH DIFFERENT BUT TOGETHER
She is a styer: calm, balanced, slowly but surely moving towards the goal. He is a troubadour, a romantic and a bully, full of ideas and plans. Burns brightly, but…

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When is it appropriate to apologize? to apologize or express regret?
In what situations is it appropriate to apologize, and in which - to apologize or express regret? Most do not understand the differences and subtleties of these concepts. Consider them…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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Monthly Archives: December 2017

Do you know how to put up? 28 WAYS TO RESTORE THE WORLD AFTER CONFLICT

No matter how hard we try, disagreements in the relationship are inevitable. Misunderstanding, broken agreements, unmet needs, unhealed wounds and other reasons push us straight to the conflict. Relationship friction alone is not a problem. The most important thing is how we react to them. Strong relationships rest on partners’ ability to quickly restore intimacy after it has been broken. Look at the following examples: Continue reading

Rejected. HOW TO RESIST A FAILURE

Each of us at least once in our life has experienced a painful experience of rejection. For example, you did not receive the coveted job or you were not invited to a friendly party. Or maybe a new friend suddenly stopped answering calls. Satisfying many of our desires and needs depends on other people and their willingness to help us. Sooner or later, we all face failures, sometimes we are excluded, others do not accept or disapprove of us. Continue reading

PEOPLE HUNTING. 3 WAYS TO STRENGTHEN Sense of SECURITY IN RELATIONS
In any relationship, one partner may require more attention and be “more in need” than another. Perhaps this need stems from the deep pain and inability of your partner to…

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CHANGES IN RELATIONS. 4 UNCERTAIN SIGNS OF CHANGE AND FORGIVENESS
Treason is an unpleasant and, of course, painful topic. We tend to act in two ways. Avoid, do not believe that it is possible, or “work ahead of the curve”…

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EMOTIONAL INCIDENTITY OR FRIENDSHIP?
Over the past decades, a new type of “infidelity” has become increasingly common - emotional attachment, which is increasingly becoming a threat to marriage. One of the most common places…

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Love in three words
Often people ask their relationship partner, “Do you love me?” Moreover, the answer to the question, what does the questioner mean by the word “love”, often there are no clear…

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