Often people ask their relationship partner, “Do you love me?” Moreover, the answer to the question, what does the questioner mean by the word “love”, often there are no clear definitions and criteria.
In this chapter, I offer you my definition of what “love” is in three words.
From my point of view, the definition of the word “love” can fit into three words: Continue reading
Why is it painful to part with the person we love?
The pain after parting is natural. And the more your attachment, the more it will manifest itself. Especially if the initiative for parting came from a partner.
Psychologically, this mechanism grows from childhood, when we were small, helpless and completely dependent on someone else’s care. A child up to a certain age is completely dependent on his parents. Continue reading
Each of us at least once in our life has experienced a painful experience of rejection. For example, you did not receive the coveted job or you were not invited to a friendly party. Or maybe a new friend suddenly stopped answering calls. Satisfying many of our desires and needs depends on other people and their willingness to help us. Sooner or later, we all face failures, sometimes we are excluded, others do not accept or disapprove of us. Continue reading