Do you know how to put up? 28 WAYS TO RESTORE THE WORLD AFTER CONFLICT
No matter how hard we try, disagreements in the relationship are inevitable. Misunderstanding, broken agreements, unmet needs, unhealed wounds and other reasons push us straight to the conflict. Relationship friction…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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TALES ABOUT HAPPY MARRIAGE. Three misconceptions that prevent us from living
“There is nothing bad or good in this world. There is only our attitude to anything. ” Shakespeare has noticed an important point, which is one of the fundamental in…

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Love in three words

Often people ask their relationship partner, “Do you love me?” Moreover, the answer to the question, what does the questioner mean by the word “love”, often there are no clear definitions and criteria.
In this chapter, I offer you my definition of what “love” is in three words.

So,
From my point of view, the definition of the word “love” can fit into three words: Continue reading

Why does pain appear after breaking up with a loved one

Why is it painful to part with the person we love?

The pain after parting is natural. And the more your attachment, the more it will manifest itself. Especially if the initiative for parting came from a partner.

Psychologically, this mechanism grows from childhood, when we were small, helpless and completely dependent on someone else’s care. A child up to a certain age is completely dependent on his parents. Continue reading

Rejected. HOW TO RESIST A FAILURE

Each of us at least once in our life has experienced a painful experience of rejection. For example, you did not receive the coveted job or you were not invited to a friendly party. Or maybe a new friend suddenly stopped answering calls. Satisfying many of our desires and needs depends on other people and their willingness to help us. Sooner or later, we all face failures, sometimes we are excluded, others do not accept or disapprove of us. Continue reading

WHAT IS A CUKOLD IN RELATIONS?
At the consultations, men and women talk about sexual fantasies about treason and their fears. And some women complain that their husbands are forcing this form of sexual activity. Let's…

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6 MEN'S BEDDIES
Sex enlightenment in our country is still confused with debauchery, and children often get information about this not from their parents, but from school folklore. Many men consider themselves Ases…

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HOW TO TAKE CHILD HUSBAND FROM FIRST MARRIAGE?
Re-marriage may be successful, but it has its own difficulties. How to build relationships with children from the first marriage of her husband? Will this connection prevent harmony in the…

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HOW TO RETURN NEARBY?
The return of intimacy to relationships is a serious topic. Sexual desires are directly related to our libido, and it can change over time. When is it still possible to…

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