LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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Morality and justice
Every system, as a subject, is always right. It can be pathological or vicious only for other systems with qualitatively different standards and values. That is, there is no morality…

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Evaluation Frame
Evaluation Frame (PF) is a practical communication technique that is useful to you in all areas of life, and not just when communicating with girls. With the help of PF,…

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“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE

Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom we plan to meet. Now we often spend time together, but my son clearly does not like it. And the most unpleasant thing is his jokes regarding my new relationship. Often they have a sexual connotation. On the verge of decency. I understand that sex for him – as for a teenager – is a “sick” topic. And when, instead of my father, another person is next to me, probably especially disturbing. Continue reading

CHANGES IN RELATIONS. 4 UNCERTAIN SIGNS OF CHANGE AND FORGIVENESS

Treason is an unpleasant and, of course, painful topic. We tend to act in two ways. Avoid, do not believe that it is possible, or “work ahead of the curve” – to suspect, follow, jealous.

Often we begin to “wind up” ourselves and see what is not. And so we can provoke treason. And if they already suspect of all sins – you can “go to the left.” Continue reading

ICE AND FLAMES. TEMPERAMENTS SUCH DIFFERENT BUT TOGETHER
She is a styer: calm, balanced, slowly but surely moving towards the goal. He is a troubadour, a romantic and a bully, full of ideas and plans. Burns brightly, but…

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Do you know how to put up? 28 WAYS TO RESTORE THE WORLD AFTER CONFLICT
No matter how hard we try, disagreements in the relationship are inevitable. Misunderstanding, broken agreements, unmet needs, unhealed wounds and other reasons push us straight to the conflict. Relationship friction…

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About TECH and NOT TECH men
“The wrong ones walk and roam in the dark,” one of the classics said something like that. And he was right. Especially often the problem of "those" - "not those"…

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Morality and justice
Every system, as a subject, is always right. It can be pathological or vicious only for other systems with qualitatively different standards and values. That is, there is no morality…

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