WE CHOOSE EACH OTHER NOT BY RANDOM. 4 FACTORS THAT DETERMINE RELATIONS
A man can seek us for years, but we will not reciprocate him. And sometimes one glance is enough to understand - this is it! Why is it that we…

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“IT IS NOT A KNIGHT AT ALL AND THERE IS NO PRINCESS”
The psychologist, the author of Our Psychology, Irina Solovyova, decided to get to know men better and ... registered on a dating site. What psychological types did she meet? How…

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WHAT DO THE DIVORED WOMEN SORRY
Divorce is always hard. And after it remains a sediment - self-pity, anger at her husband, accumulated resentment. What do women regret after a divorce and how to live on?…

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Love in three words

Often people ask their relationship partner, “Do you love me?” Moreover, the answer to the question, what does the questioner mean by the word “love”, often there are no clear definitions and criteria.
In this chapter, I offer you my definition of what “love” is in three words.

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From my point of view, the definition of the word “love” can fit into three words: Continue reading

What women in bed are silent about

Yana:
I have a great guy, sex love, everything is fine, BUT: I am a hygiene fan, I have an oddity. And he damn somewhere read that women need to hug after sex – I do not argue, lie down together for five minutes and whisper all sorts of words, that’s great. BUT!!! Not 15-20 minutes! He shows tenderness, and I lie and think – that’s interesting, will we peel off from each other or have we already died tightly ?! And shy to say, offended yet … Continue reading

EMOTIONAL INCIDENTITY OR FRIENDSHIP?
Over the past decades, a new type of “infidelity” has become increasingly common - emotional attachment, which is increasingly becoming a threat to marriage. One of the most common places…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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ICE AND FLAMES. TEMPERAMENTS SUCH DIFFERENT BUT TOGETHER
She is a styer: calm, balanced, slowly but surely moving towards the goal. He is a troubadour, a romantic and a bully, full of ideas and plans. Burns brightly, but…

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Do you know how to put up? 28 WAYS TO RESTORE THE WORLD AFTER CONFLICT
No matter how hard we try, disagreements in the relationship are inevitable. Misunderstanding, broken agreements, unmet needs, unhealed wounds and other reasons push us straight to the conflict. Relationship friction…

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