6 MAIN RULES OF SPONTANEOUS SEX
You can spontaneously go to the store and catch a dream dress on sale. Or, unexpectedly, buy a ticket and win the lottery. And you can accidentally see a person…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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LOVE AND LOVE: WHAT DIFFERENCE?
We all strive for love, for bright, deep, saturated feelings. And at the same time we want our feelings not to disappear with time, but only to acquire new qualities.…

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Jack London

Morality and justice

Every system, as a subject, is always right. It can be pathological or vicious only for other systems with qualitatively different standards and values. That is, there is no morality or justice at all. There is morality and justice for specific people and groups of people.

If you have been deceived, well, in general, they have acted immorally towards you, always remember that you, moreover, have also been presented with a scheme according to which you can also act. Continue reading

Psychological problems of communication of people and their solutions. Fears, fixations, anchors.

All internal psychological problems in the communication of people and their causes are hidden exactly where you would never even have thought of looking for them. And they hide so skillfully, because it is you who hides them. And you certainly know those places where you would never have climbed to look for them. They are very well hidden and so unpleasant that accidentally encountering them, it is easier for us to shove them back and deeper. There are ways to solve psychological problems, but they are not very pleasant and require rethinking everything you know about it. Continue reading

ICE AND FLAMES. TEMPERAMENTS SUCH DIFFERENT BUT TOGETHER

She is a styer: calm, balanced, slowly but surely moving towards the goal. He is a troubadour, a romantic and a bully, full of ideas and plans. Burns brightly, but quickly burns out. They are so different, but still they are together. Is a harmonious life possible between two emotionally different people? STORIES FROM LIFE THE SAME HALFS It would seem just fine when both creative people are paired. A joint flight of imagination, a fountain of common ideas, synchronous enthusiasm and understanding of each other from a half-view. Continue reading

7 FAVORITE PHRASES OF THE MANIPULATOR. HOW TO RECOGNIZE GASLIGHTING
Gazlighting is used by people with narcissistic disorders, sociopaths and psychopaths to exhaust you to such an extent that you can no longer resist. You might be looking for ways…

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5 SIGNS OF RELATIONS WHICH IT IS TIME TO COMPLETE
Many of us are familiar with the situation when, instead of the expected emotions from a relationship with a person, you get something completely different. Disappointment is a terrible thing…

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Do you know how to put up? 28 WAYS TO RESTORE THE WORLD AFTER CONFLICT
No matter how hard we try, disagreements in the relationship are inevitable. Misunderstanding, broken agreements, unmet needs, unhealed wounds and other reasons push us straight to the conflict. Relationship friction…

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EMOTIONAL CHANGE. WHY PARTNERS ARE AWAY FROM ANOTHER
You began to notice that your soulmate is increasingly delayed after work or spends a lot of time on social networks. Later you will learn about the person your partner…

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