Why does pain appear after breaking up with a loved one
Why is it painful to part with the person we love? The pain after parting is natural. And the more your attachment, the more it will manifest itself. Especially if…

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"LITTLE DEATH". WHAT IS DEPENDENCE
Parting is a painful experience. We are embraced by mixed feelings: sadness, fear, helplessness and even anger. Grieving for a loss of relationship is perfectly normal. Over time, relief comes,…

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7 PHRASES WHICH A MAN WANTS TO HEAR FROM YOU
They say that women love with their ears - declarations of love and pleasant words are important to them no less than actions. But we rarely say to our beloved…

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LET’S TALK ABOUT IT”. ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS

This is the second article from the series “Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin.” The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult children. We hope that the non-standard form of presentation of the material will help the reader to extract and remember key points. We are sure that an attentive reader will correctly “decipher” all the provocative ideas and advice of the author. Continue reading

CONSTANT CONSTITUTION. DOUBLE MESSAGES OF THE Daffodil

This is how it sounds: “I love you! You’re cool! You have to change! Go away It’s all your fault! ”And so in a circle. The irony is that the constancy of the daffodil is its inconstancy.

If you are in love with a person who continually sends you conflicting signals, it can damage your emotional health and even make you doubt the adequacy of perceiving reality. Continue reading

LOVE AND LOVE: WHAT DIFFERENCE?
We all strive for love, for bright, deep, saturated feelings. And at the same time we want our feelings not to disappear with time, but only to acquire new qualities.…

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"I LOVE YOUR TEACHER." WHAT IS STOCKHOLM SYNDROME?
Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition that occurs when a victim of abuse becomes attached, feels sympathy and begins to identify with her abuser. This syndrome was discovered when observing…

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7 FAVORITE PHRASES OF THE MANIPULATOR. HOW TO RECOGNIZE GASLIGHTING
Gazlighting is used by people with narcissistic disorders, sociopaths and psychopaths to exhaust you to such an extent that you can no longer resist. You might be looking for ways…

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7 FAVORITE PHRASES OF THE MANIPULATOR. HOW TO RECOGNIZE GASLIGHTING
Gazlighting is used by people with narcissistic disorders, sociopaths and psychopaths to exhaust you to such an extent that you can no longer resist. You might be looking for ways…

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