CHANGES IN RELATIONS. 4 UNCERTAIN SIGNS OF CHANGE AND FORGIVENESS
Treason is an unpleasant and, of course, painful topic. We tend to act in two ways. Avoid, do not believe that it is possible, or “work ahead of the curve”…

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“NEW DADDY”: HOW TO SPEAK WITH A TEEN ABOUT SEX AFTER A DIVORCE
Two years ago my husband and I divorced, we talk quite peacefully, he spends time with his son (15 years). But recently, I have got a regular partner with whom…

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EMOTIONAL INCIDENTITY OR FRIENDSHIP?
Over the past decades, a new type of “infidelity” has become increasingly common - emotional attachment, which is increasingly becoming a threat to marriage. One of the most common places…

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“I LOVE YOUR TEACHER.” WHAT IS STOCKHOLM SYNDROME?

Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition that occurs when a victim of abuse becomes attached, feels sympathy and begins to identify with her abuser. This syndrome was discovered when observing abducted people and hostages, who not only felt a certain connection with their captors, but even fell in love with them. Subsequently, experts expanded the definition of Stockholm syndrome to include any relationship in which victims of abuse develop a strong attachment to the aggressor. Continue reading

MYTHS ABOUT VIRTUALITY. EXPLAIN FALSE STEREOTYPES ABOUT FEMALE “INNOCENCE”

Female virginity is a phenomenon surrounded by an aura of modesty and a peculiar fetishism. Even educated people can believe in myths about the physiological processes and behavioral characteristics that accompany the “first time.” What stereotypes about virginity is high time to send to landfill? DOUBLE STANDARDS FOR PURITY The very concept of “innocence” as applied to female physicality is a direct reference to double standards regarding female and male sexual experiences. Continue reading

LOVE AND LOVE - SIGNS OF DIFFERENCE
Many women do not want to part with the euphoria of love and perceive its loss as a tragedy. Confirmation of this is the conversation of a woman with a…

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LET'S TALK ABOUT IT". ANTI-GUIDELINES FOR SOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS
This is the second article from the series "Anti-Guide psychologist Ilya Shabshin." The first article was devoted to marital disputes, the third will deal with problems between parents and adult…

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THE FILM “WHAT HIDES A FALSE” LOOKS TOGETHER WITH A PSYCHOLOGIST
"What hides the lie." USA, 2000 Director: Robert Zemeckis Cast: Michelle Pfeiffer, Harrison Ford A happy married couple finds themselves in a strange situation. The wife begins to imagine the…

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THE FILM “WHAT HIDES A FALSE” LOOKS TOGETHER WITH A PSYCHOLOGIST
"What hides the lie." USA, 2000 Director: Robert Zemeckis Cast: Michelle Pfeiffer, Harrison Ford A happy married couple finds themselves in a strange situation. The wife begins to imagine the…

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